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Why your favorite reality shows like ‘Love is Blind’ are using songs you actually know

NEW YORK (AP) — When a couple decided to take their relationship further on the most recent season of “Love Is Blind,” the moment was soundtracked with a familiar song: Billie Eilish’s “Birds of a Feather.”
It wasn’t a flash-in-the-pan musical surprise. The season was stacked with familiar needle drops — Miley Cyrus’ “Wrecking Ball,” Justin Bieber’s “Holy,” Ariana Grande’s “Into You,” Selena Gomez’s “Lose You to Love Me” — a gesture away from the little-known, sometimes generic pop songs that used to meet the show’s most emotional moments.
Show creator and Kinetic Content CEO Chris Coelen attributed the pivot to the show’s anniversary.
“We decided, in this Season 8, to coincide with our fifth anniversary, to really embrace popular music in a big way,” he said. “And so, we ended up using — throughout the entire season and in every episode — we used popular music cues.”
“Love Is Blind” isn’t the only reality show that walks the line between what viewers have labeled “real songs” and unfamiliar music.
Where does the unfamiliar music come from?
It’s not artificial intelligence, where “nobody controls the copyright,” says “The Bachelor” music supervisor Jody Friedman. “There’s too much risk involved with using AI music in these projects.”
Excluding big-time pop records, the music used on television comes from a number of sources. It can be custom, original music by the show’s composers. It can be licensed directly from artists, or from sync agents, production music libraries or a “one stop,” what supervisors call a company that has the rights to license both the master recording and the composition rights.
Music supervisors might also turn to covers of well-known songs. On the most recent season of “The Bachelor,” Friedman used a cover of Phil Phillips’ “Sea of Love,” a classic ’50s tune. It’s more affordable to pay to license a cover than the original recording — “and creatively, it’s a modern take on an old song,” he says.
“Love Island USA” music supervisor Sara Torres also uses covers.
“That can bring in other listeners that may not necessarily be into pop, but if they hear the song in a different genre, it might pull them in, to go back and listen to the original version,” she says.
Music libraries — companies that represent music catalogs for licensing purposes — are key, too, because if a song is too expensive to license, a supervisor can instead find a song that evokes the feeling of BTS’ “Butter” without having to pay for it.
“The indie libraries, let’s say, for TV, could be anywhere from $1,000-1,500 per needle drop use,” says Friedman. Generally speaking, bigger commercial songs can range from $20,000 to upward of $100,000 depending on the use, he says.
A history of using ‘real songs’ on dating competition shows
The use of instantly recognizable pop music differs from program to program.
“Love Is Blind” has used popular music in the past, but sparingly. Coelen points out the use of Lee Ann Womack’s “I Hope You Dance” in Bliss Poureetezadi and Zack Goytowski’s story in Season 4. But the frequency of Top 40 hits in the most recent season is new.
He says the benefit of using these songs, creatively, is that it “elevates the experience,” for the viewer: “Emotions are so connected to certain pieces of music, and they can conjure up feelings that we relate to.”
Kinetic Content declined The Associated Press’ request to speak with the show’s music supervisor, Jon Ernst.
“Love Island USA” featured songs like Chappell Roan’s “Kaleidoscope” and Sabrina Carpenter’s “Please Please Please” in its most recent season. Executive producer James Barker points out that the original U.K. show has always used commercial music, and therefore the U.S. version has endeavored to do the same.
“The show is meant to feel like you’re on vacation with your best friends. Of course, when you’re on vacation, you’re sharing music,” he says. “I think that translates into how we create the show.”
Torres agrees. She adds that the show typically uses more commercial music in the beginning of the season, and then again in the finale — “you want that big impact.”
Because the show has a quick turnaround time, with six episodes a week — “whatever happens in Fiji on Monday airs Tuesday in America,” as Barker describes it — the show team “pre-clears” over a thousand songs, just in case they work for a particular narrative moment. That means requests are sent out to publishers and labels ahead of time, but they’re not paid for until the tracks are selected.
A show with more lead time, “The Bachelor” has long used commercial songs in its programming. This year’s season, the show’s 29th, had several memorable musical moments, including a Cardi B, Bad Bunny and J Balvin needle drop when “I Like It” played as the cast made their way to Madrid.
“This is my first season with ‘The Bachelor,’ but historically they’ve used Colbie Caillat, Boyz II Men, Backstreet Boys,” lists Friedman. “They used Billie Eilish last season. This season we used a David Guetta track, Dropkick Murphys for the episode in Boston. There’s a Karol G track.”
He adds “The Bachelor” does use a lot of recognizable pop songs, typically one or two per episode.
“Each episode does have a budget. So, while they may splurge on a pop song, the rest of the budget” is spent on other music that comes at a lower cost, he says.
So, will there be more ‘real song’ drops in the future?
For “Love Is Blind,” Coelen says simply: “The answer is yes.”
Barker from “Love Island USA” agrees.
“Not only are you engaged with the characters, but the songs and artists that you care about listening to at home are being represented on television,” he adds. “It’s just a bridge between us all.”
Lifestyle
Ralph Fiennes will make his opera directing debut

Actor Ralph Fiennes will make his opera directing debut in Paris next season with Tchaikovsky’s “Eugene Onegin.”
The Paris Opera said Wednesday the production will run from Jan. 26 to Feb. 27 at the Palais Garnier and will star Boris Pinkhasovich in the title role, Ruzan Mantashyan as Tatiana, Bogdan Volkov as Lensky and Susan Graham as Madame Larina.
Fiennes, 62, has been nominated for three Academy Awards — most recently, this year, for “Conclave” — and one Emmy Award. The British actor won a Tony Award in 1995 for Shakespeare’s “Hamlet.” Fiennes starred in the title role of the 1999 movie “Onegin,” based on the same Alexander Pushkin novel as the opera. The film was directed by his sister Martha Fiennes.
Semyon Bychkov will conduct most of the performances. Michael Levine designs the sets and Annemarie Woods the costumes.
The Paris Opera 2025-26 season will have new productions of Verdi’s “Aida,” Wagner’s “Die Walküre and ”Siegfried” and Antonia Bembo’s “Ercole amante.”
Revivals include Claus Guth’s staging of Puccini’s “La Bohème,” moved to a spaceship and planet surface and John Adams’ “Nixon in China” with Renée Fleming and Thomas Hampson.
Lifestyle
Shingles is awful, but there may be another reason to get vaccinated. It may fight dementia

WASHINGTON (AP) — A vaccine to fight dementia? It turns out there may already be one – shots that prevent painful shingles also appear to protect aging brains.
A new study found shingles vaccination cut older adults’ risk of developing dementia over the next seven years by 20%.
The research, published Wednesday in the journal Nature, is part of growing understanding about how many factors influence brain health as we age – and what we can do about it.
“It’s a very robust finding,” said lead researcher Dr. Pascal Geldsetzer of Stanford University. And “women seem to benefit more,” important as they’re at higher risk of dementia.
The study tracked people in Wales who were around 80 when receiving the world’s first-generation shingles vaccine over a decade ago. Now, Americans 50 and older are urged to get a newer vaccine that’s proven more effective against shingles than its predecessor.
The new findings add another reason for people to consider rolling up their sleeves, said Dr. Maria Nagel of the University of Colorado Anschutz Medical Campus, who studies viruses that infiltrate the nervous system.
The virus “is a risk for dementia and now we have an intervention that can decrease the risk,” Nagel said.
With Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia on the rise in an aging population, “the implications of the study are profound,” Dr. Anupam Jena, a Harvard physician and health economist, wrote in a Nature commentary.
What is shingles?
Anyone who’s had ever had chickenpox – nearly everybody born before 1980 – harbors that virus for the rest of their life. It hides in nerves and can break out when the immune system weakens from illness or age, causing painful, blister-like sores typically on one side of the body that last for weeks – what’s called shingles.
About 1 in 3 Americans will get shingles, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. While most recover, it sometimes causes severe complications. If it infects an eye it can cause vision loss. Up to 20% of shingles patients suffer excruciating nerve pain months or even years after the rash itself is gone.
What’s the link between shingles and dementia?
It’s not clear exactly how Alzheimer’s and other types of dementia form. But certain viruses that sneak inside the nervous system – especially members of the herpes family including the chickenpox virus — have long been suspected of adding to genetic and other factors that make people more vulnerable.
Last summer, doctors at Boston’s Brigham and Women’s Hospital reported that an episode of shingles could raise someone’s risk of dementia by about 20%.
Partly, it’s because that virus can cause inflammation, bad for organs including the brain. It also can directly infect blood vessels in the brain, causing clots and impeding blood flow, said Colorado’s Nagel, a risk both for strokes and for dementia.
More intriguing, her lab also discovered shingles can spur formation of a sticky protein called amyloid that’s one of the hallmarks of Alzheimer’s.
Do shingles vaccines protect against dementia?
Adults who get recommended vaccines tend to have other brain-healthy habits including exercising and a good diet, which made it hard to prove an extra benefit.
Stanford’s Geldsetzer took advantage of “a natural experiment” in Wales, which opened shingles vaccinations with an age limit: anyone 80 or older on Sept. 1, 2013, was ineligible but those still 79 could squeeze in. Comparing seniors who just met or just missed that cutoff would mimic a research study that randomly assigned otherwise similar people to be vaccinated or not.
Geldsetzer’s team analyzed more than 280,000 medical records and found evidence that vaccination did offer some protection against dementia. At the time, people received a first-generation vaccine called Zostavax.
An important next step is testing whether today’s vaccine, Shingrix, also offers dementia protection, Nagel said. Another research group recently reported some evidence that it does. Vaccine manufacturer GSK last month announced a collaboration with UK health officials to track seniors’ cognitive health as they get vaccinated.
Geldsetzer also hopes to further study that earlier shot to see if the type of vaccine might make a difference.
What are the shingles vaccine recommendations?
Shingrix is a onetime vaccination, given in two doses a few months apart. The CDC recommends it starting at age 50 for most people but also for younger adults with certain immune-weakening conditions – including those who years ago got that first-generation shingles vaccine. Fewer than 40% of eligible Americans have gotten vaccinated.
Side effects including injection-site pain and flu-like fever and achiness are common. The CDC cautions if you’re currently fighting another virus such as the flu or COVID-19, to wait on a shingles shot until you’re well.
While there’s no proven prevention for dementia, doctors also recommend other commonsense steps to lower the risk. Stay socially and cognitively active. And control high blood pressure and, for people with diabetes, high blood sugar, both of which are linked to cognitive decline.
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Cooking with kids teaches healthy eating and more

To raise adventurous, self-sufficient and health-conscious eaters, get kids in the kitchen.
It may sound too simple, but those are just a few of the benefits when kids learn to cook. Cooking builds life skills, promotes healthy eating, boosts confidence and strengthens family bonds — all while making mealtime fun.
“It helps to think of it as less of a chore and more of an opportunity to be together as a family,” said Jessica Battilana, staff editor at King Arthur Baking Company, which offers adult and children’s cooking classes.
The food doesn’t need to be fancy, and it doesn’t all have to be homemade.
“The investment parents make early on to encourage their kids to participate in mealtime will pay dividends later, when they’re able to handle kitchen tasks independently,” Battilana said.
Whether your child loves to cook or has never held a knife, it’s not too late to start building these skills.
Some of the rewards:
A sense of accomplishment
If the COVID pandemic taught us anything, it was the importance of knowing how to cook.
During the lockdown, Becca Cooper Leebove, a mom of two in the Denver area, began teaching her children how to do simple tasks in the kitchen. Just 3 and 8 at the time, they began by dumping ingredients into a stand mixer, rolling out dough, or icing a cake.
Five years later, their skills continue to grow.
This article is part of AP’s Be Well coverage, focusing on wellness, fitness, diet and mental health. Read more Be Well.
“My ultimate goal has always been family time — something to do together that’s engaging, but also important to get them off their phones or iPads,” Leebove said.
“They also love to brag when it’s done and we all eat their masterpiece together,” Leebove said.
They clean up after cooking and know how to set the table. Now that Leebove’s son is 13, he helps chop veggies and sauté meat.
Confidence and real-world skills (like math)
“It can feel special to kids to be included in an adult activity,” said Cristi Donoso, 38, from Alexandria, Virginia. Donoso is a speech therapist and encourages her clients to cook with their kids in age-appropriate ways. She’s also the mother to a 5-year-old, who has been baking with her since toddlerhood.
“There’s a lot of real-world learning involved,” Donoso said: math concepts, language skills and self-control. Kids learn by reading and following a step-by-step recipe. It takes concentration and other executive functioning skills. They also learn how to be safe in a kitchen, requiring self-control.
Exposure and sensory experience with food help kids become well-rounded eaters, she said.
“Your food experience isn’t just about sitting down to eat. It’s about making a list, going to the store, and feeling the fruit,” she said.
An adventurous palate
Eric Brown, along with his wife, Elizabeth Brown, opened Third Space Kitchen in August 2023. At their two Massachusetts locations, they offer cooking classes for kids, often through day camps, birthday parties or as a school-break activity.
“One thing I see a lot is that they’re willing to experiment,” Brown said, and knowing what’s in the food helps kids get over any squeamishness. Or perhaps the common aversion to veggies.
Younger kids might start by making pizza dough from scratch or decorating cupcakes. Older kids have participated in full-cake icing competitions.
“As the programs progress, I hear less of ‘Eww, I won’t touch that’ and more of ‘What is that? I’ll try it,’” said Brown, who has four kids of his own.
Paving the way for healthy eating
Childhood obesity rates have been rising for decades, and studies have show a positive correlation between healthy eating and home cooking, which can be a good alternative to ultraprocessed foods.
Jennifer Schittino, a Maryland-based working mom of two young children, wants to help them shape healthier habits for the future.
“It’s both healthier and cheaper to cook from scratch.” she said. She also wants her children to “understand the fundamentals so they can make healthy and nutritious meals on a limited budget.”
Her kids know how to use knives and rolling pins, as well as hand-crank pasta, separate an egg, cut an avocado and toss pizza.
Parents might learn about cooking too
Even if you’re not a skilled home cook, don’t be intimidated teaching kids to be one.
Start simple. Make a list of 10 things that kids can learn to master, Battilana suggested. It might include scrambled eggs, a quesadilla with guacamole, or pasta with steamed veggies.
“Practice making those 10 things often so you get good at them, can shop for them easily, and make them without a recipe,” she said. (King Arthur has a kids’ baking cookbook due out in September, “Sweet and Salty!”)
Cooking and shopping for fresh foods become a lot less intimidating the more you do it.
“I think kids are far more capable in the kitchen than we give them credit for,” Battilana said. “They may be slower, messier, but they’re capable of a lot, and usually pretty eager to try new foods — especially if they’ve had a hand in making them.” ___
Tracee M. Herbaugh writes frequently about Lifestyles topics for The Associated Press. She can be reached at www.linkedin.com/in/traceeherbaugh/.
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